Tuesday, 19 September 2006

Where are Jonny and Flo going for their weekend break?



Booking a long weekend away just before you are about to move house may seem a bit silly. Or at least not very well-planned. In our case, it is of course neither! :-)

Months and months ago, we thought we deserved a long weekend away after we'd moved. Instead of a summer holiday. So when KLM had a promotion where we could use airmiles to fly for a discounter price to Copenhagen, we thought we'd take the opportunity.

As it turns out, we have not moved yet. We also had to put up with the ludicrously high airport taxes, making the ticket price same as normal. Neither did we anticipate Jonny going to Russia. But one day at home should cover any possible jetlag?

We are leaving on Friday, back on Sunday. Just in time to pack some personal belongings so we can find those back in the inevitable mess the first days in our new house.

Nothing reduces our anticipatory pleasure though! We are very much looking forward to seeing the Danish capital, meet the Danes, buy some Danish design and, most of all, to spend some time together.

Monday, 18 September 2006

Our second round of IVF-ICSI: what's next?

Last week I spoke to the doctor that performed our last IVF cycle. She said that they only have a telephone evaluation after a failed IVF treatment if the patients ask the nurses too many difficult questions about it. Yeah, that sounds like me! :-)

Why did it go wrong? Unfortunately nobody knows why succesfully fertilised embryos don't implant. Something in nature has decided that these implanted embryos are not viable, most likely because of a genetic or chromosomal defect. We might simply have been a bit unlucky.

Could the laporoscopy have influenced the outcome? When women start IVF soon after a delivery or after an operation on the ovaries, it can happen that the ovaries do not respond like they otherwise would. During an operation also healthy tissue is removed and that can mess about with hormone levels, negatively influencing the outcome. Given our history, it seems most likely that I don't have a large stock of egg cells though.

Is there something wrong with me? There is nothing wrong with me, other than not having a large stock of egg cells. Normally this would not have been a problem and we would not have even noticed. Because we rely on IVF and the hyperstimulation that goes with it, it is a bit unfortunate. A small consolation is that quality is more important than quantity.

When can we have another go? She suggested having an ultrasound on the third day of the next cycle and determine my FSH levels. The FSH level determines how many egg cells will grow during an IVF cycle. As a general rule, the lower the better, as it rises when a woman approaches menopause. This is something they want to rule out (although there is no real reason to suspect it). This would mean starting stimulation again the beginning of November.

What will we do differently? To give us the best possible chance, they suggest to do the long protocol again. That would mean we have a rest this cycle. Next cycle on day three I start on the Pill.

Huh, the Pill? But we want to get pregnant? The pill regulates the growth of the follicles a bit more. Instead of having one very enthusiastic follicle, they are much more likely to all be the same size. So by the time they are ready to be harvested, they are all ripe enough to be fertilised.

How do we feel? Still a wee bit sad at times, but mainly looking forward to the next try. We can now fully concentrate on the new house, appreciate some IVF-free time and I can enjoy my occasional glass of wine!

Counting the days

I am counting the days before Jonny comes back: 2. The closer it gets to him coming home the more I miss him. That must have to do with how you adjust the internal clock to a certain number of days. There is enough to get on with though: organising stuff for the new house, tidying up the old house and throwing away stuff we don't need anymore. The latter by the way deserving a post of its own! How much stuff does one accumulate? Let alone two people...

I am counting the days before we move house: 7. Although a lot has been done, the house is not nearly finished yet. But we have a working shower, a temporary counter top in the kitchen and working heaters. We can live in it!



At the weekend I have painted the pantry, moving away from the still 'rustic' feel that was in there. We can now hang some shelves for our cans and containers. Today and tomorrow the wooden floors are being put in, the concrete in the front will get an epoxy coating later this week and my adorable new door stoppers will be attached too.

It is so exciting that we are now almost moving in to our new house. The first time that we will actually live in our own house! We can now happily fill the wall with nails (if we wanted to) and paint it any colours we like (in case we get bored of our carefully chosen palette). We have both done so much and are really proud of how it is coming together. It goes to show what a good team can do. Just waiting for my team mate to come back now! :-)

Sunday, 17 September 2006

Travels in the Sea of Okhotsk

Most people wonder what the hell I get up to on my adventures away from home, so I thought I’d write a quick post to give a snapshot of a day in the life of a well engineer (plus I had my camera so was able to take a few pictures to illustrate).

Yesterday was a long day of travel. At around 10am I left my temporary home 16km off the coast of Sakhalin island in the sea of Okhotsk, where I’d been living on a man made island of steel and sand called the Molikpaq. I was transported onto a crew boat via a special basket that is lifted from the deck of the platform onto the deck of the boat via one of the platform’s cranes; if you look closely at the picture below you can just about make it out on the right of the picture as a small yellow pyramid shaped object. Fortunately, it’s not too cold this time of the year, but I still had to wear a thickly padded orange survival suit to protect me from the cold wind and from the icy water should an accident occur and I fell into the sea. The basket is hanging about 30 meters above sea level, so it’s quite a fall is something goes wrong, but fortunately i was safely strapped in.


It takes about four hours for the boat to navigate from the platform to the nearest port, but on the way we stopped off at another vessel called the Jaya Installer 5 to pick up some more passengers. This vessel is a floating hotel with accommodation for about 300 people. It carries out support work for the installation of offshore platforms and is currently carrying out welding operations for Exxon oil company (who operate a similar platform out here called the Orlan).

I spoke to one of the departing passengers and he informed me that the welders are currently working on a pipeline. It’s a tough job, since the divers spend two weeks in a pressurised environment. To weld underwater, they construct a tent on the seabed, approximately 30 meters beneath the surface. After a 12 hour shift, they return to the surface, but have to stay in a small pressured tank to prevent decompression problems. This way, they only have to compress and decompress once during their hitch; they compress when they start and then at then once at the end of their two-week hitch they decompress to re-join the rest of the world. Spending this much time in such a claustrophobic environment would send most people insane!

There’s not an awful lot to see on the way except for an occasional seagull following the wake of the boat looking for food.

The end of the sea journey is marked with the arrival at the port of… (sorry, I'm crap at remembering names, particularly Russian ones) a battered, bleak, run down little port with signs that it was once a major oil export terminal judging by the numerous rusty old oil depots littering its perimeter.


After saying farewell to the crew boat (I’ve never been a big fan of crew boats after being forced to endure three days on one, unable to disembark due to rough sea conditions… I lost about 5kg in weight during those three days and earned the nickname “the jolly green giant” on account of the change in colour of my complexion), so I was not sad to be back on terra firma.

Here’s a picture of the crew boat. Mine was the one in the background, affectionately named “Miss Sybil”. The one in the foreground was similarly named “Miss Vickie”, perhaps after an old college friend of mine who coincidentally is now a teacher, so shares the “Miss” prefix also. Life’s full of coincidences (if you look for them).

After a quick stop over at a base camp in Nogliki (a sterile, characterless place, also enough to send one insane if having to spend anything length of time there) to pick up my passport (never get caught in Russia without your passport!), it was off to the train station to catch the overnight train back to Yuzhno.

Similar to the port, the train station appears to have seen better days, since, as is the fashion in this part of the world, machinery that has come to the end of its useful life is left to unceremoniously rot away in an open grave. At least these abandoned train carriages are now being utilised by a young family of dogs, who have sensibly chosen the less decrepit of the two carriages to be their home.


No expenses are spared on the train travel, as we are treated to relative luxury having our own carriage with 4 berth sleeper cabins. Fortunately, I’ve only ever had to share a cabin with one other person, which is actually a blessing since it gives the opportunity for some human contact on what is otherwise a very lonely experience.

This time, I shared my cabin with a local inhabitant of Yuzhno, who gave me an insight into the way of life in the area. Despite their somber appearance, Russians have an inherent sense of good humor; they are very aware that they live in a tough environment, but are very tolerant and accepting of it and are content just to survive.

As Flo has taken to point out recently, we live in a generation where we expect an awful lot out of life, like it’s our birthright. It’s not until I return to relative civilization back at my hotel when I realize how lucky I am to be able to call my loved ones and catch up life back at home with a half our chat with my wife.

Friday, 15 September 2006

Where's Jonny?

In case anyone's wondering why I've not been posting with my usual fevor, it's because I'm currently stuck out here.


This picture is a bit exagerated... it's not frozen up at the moment, but there's not many pictures of this place on the internet, so this will have to do. The place has also grown a bit since this picture was taken too... it grows rather organically this place, sprouting lumps and bumps all over and walking around inside it is like walking through the insides of huge monster. I'll see if I can get a nicer picture of it as I leave tomorrow.

If you're wondering where this thing is, you can read a bit about it here. I've only spent a couple of nights out here, heading back tomorrow... 4 hours in a boat followed by 15 hours on a train to get to back to town.

Meanwhile, Flo's left at home, sorting out bills, painters, builders, plumbers etc and dealing with our recent set-back all on her own (well, physically at least, since I often think about her). I think I've actually got the easy option in comparison... so sorry Flo! Promise I'll make it up to you when I'm back! I do appreciate all the hard work that you're doing, I hate not being there with you and most importantly, I love you very much!