Tuesday, 20 July 2010

Back in Nederland


We arrived back in Nederland on Sunday to prepare for the arrival of number two in September, since we decided against having the delivery in Damascus. We took Beatrice to see auntie apple and uncle pear at the little fruit and veg stall, who were of course delighted to see her!

4 comments:

Vita said...

Welkom terug! Wat een heerlijke tijd om weer in NL te zijn: op naar de laatste loodjes. Krijgen we weer foto's van een hoogzwangere Flo die op haar hoofd yoga doet? :)

Edje said...

oh wat fijn dat jullie er weer zijn! Daten binnenkort??

Elke said...

Begint echt al te korten voor nummer 2 he! Blijven jullie dan nu in Nederland tot na de bevalling?

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